Thursday, 11 June 2020

The Year, 2020

It has been 9 months I have been away from writing my blog.

I feel so bad about not sharing my moments or any special I could have highlight.

My babies are keeping me so busy till I could not carry out my writing. Oops!

It has been so tough and tiring journey to keep me as a strong mother and woman to spend time with my two babies.

So I am kinda missing out to update everything on social media I could not do so.

Well, during the past of 9 months ago - my husband and I have been tiring with our kids especially our eldest son Benjamin who is so tough, rough and strong toddler. He wont be able to do focusing on surrounding him unless he attracts to something he likes. Moreover he would screams, cries out loud and vomit. He is also has not speaking up yet.

I as a mother feels confuse - people would ask or is there something wrong with Ben? Shall he seeks a Psychologist doctor to figure out whether he is ADHD ?

Oh well, things are tougher for us and we wont want to feel awkward with Ben's condition. It is not an easy thing to do - especially when you have a child with such problem. Look at us, we are Deaf parents to our hearing child. Such case increases a little trouble - how we could help our boy!

A lot of hospitals, centers or doctors are recommended to us to help Ben. The fees are not that so cheap though! It shook us. However, my cousin has figured out to help Ben to know what is his diagnosis problem - but still they cant do this for Ben coz it wont be so fair since he actions normal like everybody else. Okay, it is cleared that he was 2 years old but his way is definitely like 1 year old child behavior! So he is a little far behind from every kid.

Ah, we got him at last and we knew what to do next. He should attends to Speech Therapy class to learn how to speak and talk.

Since the MCO (Movement Control Order) started on 18th March  2002, everybody couldn't go anywhere! Oh no, everything has stopped for a while. So Ben would miss out his class to attend. Hence we have to stop it. So during the 3 months - Ben has been staying home with us most of the time. We even spend time with Ben and Mira to help him too.

He is now 3 years old since he has celebrated his birthday in March.

 Of course it is hard for us to understand what Ben wants. We are trying to say something to him. He does understand my words a few that which makes me glad at least he got it.
1 or 2 words he understands well yes! So I'm keeping myself to push a little more to talk to him. I even do some actions with him - like patting the chair saying to him, let's sit down. He sits down yes. I would call him for food to be feed, please come here. He comes here yes. So from there, I noticed he DOES UNDERSTAND but lazy to turn up or shake head when I call him. He does HEAR but not really into my attention. I have to speak it out a little louder - oh my throat pains.

Though he is not so good at focusing around but his brain aint that stupid. He is smart boy. He is also so cheeky. He loves in getting closer with everybody. He has no fear - play, bath and eat.

He would have his toy plays all in order - tidy. He would places his water bottle and his sister's water bottle on the cabinet nicely. How good he is! He would helps me to shut rooms' doors well. A very organizing toddler.

Btw, recently he is now feeling more calmer and even walk in easy without any difficulty and there is no screams nor cries anymore. I would teach him to take off his diaper by himself , he does.

Now I know that everything you spend with your special child NEED TIME. Patience is the key.
Love is the best medicine. Trust your child to give you the best he/she can be.

Place your utmost love and trustworthy towards your child in every need.

Do not feel upset. Keep on going to try everything what it comes.

REMEMBER > DO NOT PUSH your child too hard.

Tuesday, 8 October 2019


Biogaia, a clinically proven probiotics from Sweden. 

I received this parcel close to 3 weeks ago. Surprisingly it was delivered in good condition. It was delivered in Styrofoam with reusable ice packs inside.

Okay, I am going to introduce this product.

Hope this video will help you to understand better.

Biogaia Baby Drops
(for gut comfort)

The only probiotic with scientific evidence infantile colic.
Biogaia is special. It is derived from human mother's milk.
Safe for 0-3 years old infants.

My baby daughter is feeling good after taking BioGaia drops. Initially, she was crying a lot throughout the night. I started giving her BioGaia drops and observe that her crying time has reduced. She is getting better and I manage to get my sleeps during the night. She looks so happy and so do I. No more worries.

This BioGaia drops do help my baby and words cannot describe my thankfulness to BioGaia. 

I ate BioGaia Drops, yeah! 💗

Biogaia Probiotics Chewable Tablets
30 lemon flavoured tablets


The probiotic for pregnant and lactating moms.
A prenatal supplementation.
Suppports a healthy maternal microflora.
Transfers to breast milk.
Contributes to a heallthy breast milk composition.

A source for colonization of the breastfed infant's developing gut.
Provides microbial stimulation for the breastfed infant's developing immune system.
For 4 - 18 years old and above.

I took this chewable tablet during breastfeeding period. Believing that it will help me and it did. Usually, a lactating mother will experience lack of sleeps, tiredness and falling sick easily. Fortunately by taking this it improves my immune system which keeps me good in good health all the time. So I can breastfeed my baby without any worries. BioGaia chewables support healthy maternal microflora on the mother which is then transfer to the baby through breastfeeding. I feel much better and amazed, a healthy mother of 2 kids.

These products can be store in room temperature (below 25 degree celcius). As for the drops, it is advisable to store in the fridge once open.

Highly recommended for pregnant women, lactating mothers and babies too.

Your baby will feel much better healthier and good in taking them when you get them the right probiotic.

I am grateful for having them for me myself and my baby daughter.

Thanks so much BioGaia!

Monday, 7 October 2019


I won this IG contest, many thanks to Ms. JiaShinLee and Melvory team.
I've received this parcel worths RM 189 safely last 3 months ago. 

What I've got?

Let me unopened this gift.

Dry & Itchy Skin Rescue Pack

 This pack is a great starter kit for families wanting to try natural products to help with your child's dry and itchy skin. Non-medicated Organic bath and moisturizers, no harsh chemicals and zero preservatives.

They are awesome gift I have ever had! 💗

It is kinda a bit late I am doing this review since I have been busy giving birth to my second daughter, Mira.

Though I have heard bit of company, Melvory before as I could not afford them. Because they all are organic products made in Australia which is quite expensive. 

So I must get my family to use them to feel how amazing Melvory products is onto their skins.

To my little surprise, my daughter Mira loves to enjoy having had this Baby Milk Bath in her bathtub. She can be fallen asleep during her bath session, haha! 👶 💓

Soothing Calendula Baby Milk Bath

This is a gently soap substitute that turns the water a rich golden colour and is naturally soothing on dry itchy skin. Made from natural Calendula essence, finely powdered oatmeal mixed with the purest goat's milk, it is creamy and gently cleanse for the delicate skin of my most precious babe! Packaged in an easy to use stand-up pouch with a cute little bamboo spoon included.

I love how they have designed this pack good, easy and quick. Especially I have to handle a baby to bath.

(Calendula Golden Milk Bath)

Fill your baby's bath tub with lukewarm water and add 2 spoonfuls of the Calendula Golden Milk Bath powder into the water.

Stir the water with your hands until everything is dissolved and have baby soak in for 5-10 minutes.

Carefully take baby out and pat dry with a towel.

How lovely my Mira is!

 I cleaned and dressed Mira up, look at how fresh she is enjoying to be a baby model for Melvory product!😍😉

Ok, let me introduce this lovely product.
Hemp Seed Oil Whipped Butter 

This bold of round black wooden to be open easily and I am loving this so much.
Beautiful, rich and luxuriously thick. It is a fantastic head to toe moisturizer designed especially to help with dry, flaky and irritated skin. Adults can also use this on cracked painful heels. Watch as your skin transforms under the nourishment of all the goodness that mother nature has to offer.

There this is an another good product to offer me.
Lavender Chocolate Whipped Butter

The healing benefits of Lavender not only soothes any itchiness, but it's calming scent also helps relax your little darling and promotes better sleep for you. The thickness of the butter forms a protective barrier over skin to allow for intense hydration which will leave skin feeling soft and supple.

Moisturize baby's skin immediately using either the Lavender Whipped Butter or Hemp Seed Oil Whipped Butter.

Adult may use it too.I love using them as well, it does in helping my cracking heels to soothe softly after I wear socking. The fragrance is amazing and I love the smell.

Melvory products are all amazing natural and organic.

Thursday, 22 August 2019

is coming soon!!!

Image result for mid autumn festival

I am sure you all are looking forward to this special celebration with your loved ones.

Love to play beautiful colourful of lanterns around?
Love to eat delicious mooncake?

I also love this festival as it is only to be done once in a year round. My family would go buy mooncakes as we all are mooncake lovers.
To nowadays, mooncakes are not quite that cheap though. It is getting expensive.

I tasted old traditional mooncakes yet they are original homemade and delicious too. I even tried modern mooncakes, be it jelly mooncakes, dessert mooncakes and much more they can be into much creativity but still they are not people no.1 favourite. They might go to those youth people who would love sweet to their tasty.

I am sure you all are waiting to find and buy homemade mooncakes. Here is what I have got you all this now. is a social enterprise, they empower the low income group to make a living with their food-making skills. They help those to market the products, package, deliver, while ensuring the quality of products, so that these underprivileged families get to make a living and be self sustainable. is having this #GIVEAWAY  Insta-worthy Homemade Mooncake Giftbox (worth RM49)


To my audience, you may support them by buying a small gift to your dear family, your friends and everybody to celebrate this Mid-Autumn Festival together.

YES, it's free!
-Original price RM49 (now FREE)
- 4 hand-made Classic Teriyaki Mooncakes
-including the most classic pure lotus and Red Bean Flavors
- aunty has sold mooncakes for more than 15 years
- recieved a lot of customer praise
- a wonderful gift box with modern
- a gift box full with sincerity from Kravve to know their brand
- we send directly to your home, within all over Malaysia.


As at the 20th August 2019 or after delivery, there is no much left of homemade gift boxes to be done.

Let's do now to CLAIM your gift box here!

#2019中秋 #中秋节2019 #特制精美礼盒 #中秋送礼佳品 #无数好评

Monday, 5 August 2019


We would like to share our moment with you fans out there.

There is this 
our daughter
to celebrate her 1 month old
happy FULLMOON birthday.

What a concidence, my cousins with their partners were able to make their time to visit
their nephew Benjamin and niece Mira together.

I am so glad this family time is all the worth it.

For all of us.
Benjamin + Mira

Benjamin was gladly to join her sister Chinese fullmoon birthday for the first time.

It is also my first time to be able to gather a family time since we cousins had our last childhood crazy moment. And now in turn my children bring their much affections of love 💗 💗 towards their aunt and uncle. 

Thanks to aunt @ ee Xinci for the good shot photo.

Happy Fullmoon Mira !

Family Time.

Friday, 26 July 2019


I was absolutely missed my postnatal massage last two years ago since I gave birth to Benjamin in Penang. My body was thin fast down to 45kgs after 6 times. 

Then when I was about to give birth to Mira, I was busy looking around for a good postnatal massage I need badly. As I have 2 kids to look after, I have to be health and strong so I can do some works. After a few researches on postnatal massage services, there I WhatSapped this Madam Juha, a Malay masseur young lady for the service offer.

After 2 weeks I have given birth to Mira, my second daughter I was on my confinement period however I was so hot, sweating up all over my body trying not to switch on the air-conditioner believeing it is not good to body. But in each night I would end up in sweating body, esp on my upper neck part which took me to feel so much in pain. Because the sweat is wet that causes my body could not stand it up till I called this Madam Juha quick to start my package right away!

Here is the package, Traditional Massage only for women that she would offers me.
I came to decide to choose the 3 days package Set A (RM300) and it turned things go well with me. I love the way she offered me.

How I was done with the package I chosen?

1. I would be soaked in the sauna with my batik sarong for 20 minutes. To get 
    body sweat. It was good feeling. (I recalled back to old memory where I      
    used to had good sauna with my girl friends, laughed) The masseur would  
    go to boil the bath herbs in the meanwhile.

2. Then after sauna is done, my body is dried up then get to bathroom to bath 
    with hot good herbs. The herb leaves were good in smell. (Let's say it takes 
    me around 15 to 30 minutes)

3. After my bath, I blowed up my hair with dryer hair quickly, covered myself in 
    a new batik sarong and then I laid down on a soft thick mattress and there 
    my body goes off with a good massage using massage oil. My body felt some ouch where there is too much air inside my body that's why my body felt the pain. The masseur has massaged me so well, and I truly enjoyed it. Her work is always required to my need. (She would take her 'bertungku' to do on my tummy and body as well) It took me an hour and half session.

    Of course, when she 'bertungku' on my tummy and body I felt so hot but it 
    was good to have the air came out so my body would feel much better and 
    healtheir. And I even had a small massage on my shoulder and head that 
    goes as well. It took at least 30 minutes to be done.

All in total of 3 hours to be done with reasonable price I would recommended to everybody.

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Every session I have done with Madam Juha, I felt much better and my body gets to have good improvement. I came to a little relieve that I did correctly by calling her quick to do it. If not, my body would end up in much pain terribly.

Thanks to her kindness for being flexible with me on dates understanding I have to run a lot of errands to do with my kids, though it was hard but I did it. 

So everybody of you who are looking for a traditional confinement massage please do drop her a massage, Juha Facebook for an appointment and enjoy your sessions with her. 💗

Thursday, 25 July 2019

How to increase
your milk production?

Want to give the best breastmilk to your child?

There are many ways to have more in supplying milk.

Eat well.
Sleep well.
No stress.
Happy-go-lucky (all time)

Drink more water.
Drink more date tea.
Drink more soup.
Drink milk.
Drink nestum.
Eat obimin. (if you still got leftover)
Eat cheese.

And this another goat milk with fenugreek powder (traditional)

Traditional is BETTER than the modern pill/ tablet taking up.

Knowing fenugreek is to booster milk. Some it works, some it doesn't work. Well, at least I try it out. 

I'm offered two flavours, Mocha Hazel and Kurma Delima for RM 92 with free postage. Cheap. They do have another flavour, Milky Mango Vanilla. This Mocha Hazel by G-Star drink is good, I enjoy having it when I'm hungry. The tasty is not too coffee but more alikely to chocolate.  The Kurma Delima tasty is not so bad, it tastes like you are drinking good hot milk. 

Few hours later, my milk is up to 50ml in such short of 5 days after delivery. Another days is up to 110ml. Which is good start for me to feed my baby Mira. I enjoy having it with her. She drinks well and my hard work is all worth it!


The milk story.
Double choc with fenugreek. (Recommended for breastfeeding mother)

It is frequently touted as the first herb to try when mothers are faced with low milk production for many nursing mothers.

I got it from Baby Avenue Putrajaya. They open at
 11.30am to 3.00pm and 4.00pm to 8.30pm (daily). 
A friendly shop.
No 4, Jalan P8G1, Presint 8
Putrajaya, Wilayah Persekutuan, Malaysia
Call 03-8893 0139

You may find it in any of mama shops. They have variety to offer you to choose from.

Try whatever you may. Most importantly - DO NOT STRESS. Think POSITIVE all days.